Are Some Women Materialistic And Superficial Or Just After Security

It is without doubt that the average Nigerian man, sees the average Nigerian woman as materialistic and superficial beings, that lust after nothing but
their money.

They believe all they care about is how much he is worth and how much can he spend on them.

He believes with money he can get any Nigerian woman. He hates this fact but frequently believes that he can't help it because time and time again, He sees how history repeat itself, how the rich and famous gets the girl and the broke and losers, loses
the girl.

You can see him ranting on threads, crying like a cry baby after his been mugurized or losing out in game of love due to his socio economic status.

Before, I proceed I would like to admit this in an over flogged topic, Moreover What I want to achieve. Is make a case for the average Nigerian women. Who majority of we men see as lovers of money. I would do this by making you see thing from a different perspective, as I try to enlighten you on the way we male are really the problem and what you can do to change this narrative.

Woman are not after money but the security money brings:- The first thing I have come to understand is that, Women are wired to look up to men for security, be it emotional, physical or financial security. The see men as providers. One of the key things they looks out for in a mate is his ability to secure and protect her from the unknown, It's part of their make up.

Just like how we guys go after full boxuom, and well curved women as an ideal mate, because subconsciously we are wired to believe she has the motherly and feminine assets to nurture our seed, and feed our desires.

That's the Same way they see men with financial clout. To them his represents a symbol of security from the harsh financial realities of life. He represents a symbol of comfort and hope for a better life. Women are really not money lustful, they basically acting out their basic desire to get the best deal life has to offer in regards to finding that one man they can fill their need to be emotionally, physical and FINANCIALLY secure.

So instead of always blaming and whining use this realization to your advantage, by understanding that women are not after your money but the idea of the security you represent. What this means is that you don't have to be a maga or spend like you do to get your dream woman.

All you basically have to do is feed her the idea that you can secure her financially, exude the aura of man that has a life, that has everything figured out.

The mistake most men make is in trying to feed her this idea they believe the can do so by spending on her like a maga. Where all you have to simply do is send signals to her that you have your financial life sorted out. I.e a good job, a nice place, strong career prospects, you are hard working with solid things going on for you. Sell her the idea that you are THE MAN. Stop complaining WORK HARDER.

The astonishing thing is to sell this idea you don't have to spend on her, instead it's the other way
round. Spend on your self, Spend your time to build a solid career, a solid business, To look good. Go
after money, not her. Tease her but don't go
overboard like a maga does.
Women are no fools :- Ask any guy what kind of woman do you want... He's default reply " I want a sexy lady,with full Manchester, nicely curved and thick arsenal, pretty face, Long legs etc".

The fact is that by default we guys are clouded by lust, and our animal desires when it comes to dating which we can't help. All we want is punny, free punny, It's like we want to eat our cake and have it.

Forgetting that beautiful hair you like has to be maintained, that skin that looks smooth, that buxom, that arsenal all have weekly if not daily maintenance fee.

She has for several years, kept that figure, that beauty after spending loads of cash at the Saloon, the boutique, the makeup shop. Won't she be very silly, to give access to all that to a broke Bottom dude. You check am now.

The worse thing is giving it to a man who all he want is her waist, who wants to "chop and clean
mouth".

Women are not fools, To access all that you must drop something one way other the other. She is not a gold digger but protecting her investment and maintain her asset so they don't devalue quickly...

I frequently hear guys say. "I want a woman to fall in love with the real me, not my money". I am not against this, infact I want same. But the question I never fail to ask these guys is "Who are you", "What is in you that is worth falling in love with".

Intelligence you don't have, Character zero. Is it the fact that you have no life, no vision, No purpose, you are just clueless. To top it all you are lazy, jealous, arrogant, insensitive and you want a full blooded sexy female to fall in love with all that. Guy you think am now.

Moreover as a guy before you go after a women, ask yourself what do you want from them, is it sex or love. If it is sex do not dare complain if she mugurize you.

If it is love, the way you go about it matters how to sift out the materialistic bunch from the real deal matters. This I will address in the next point.

Some Men love Gold diggers:- You find men that complain, whine, cry like cry babies when they have been mugugrized. When all they do is encourage the gold digging tendencies in women.

We men have a twisted believe that women can be bought, give her money, money, more money and she is all yours. To collect her phone no. you send her recharge card. To buy her loyalty and love, you pay her school fees, house rent, take her shopping with the hope that she would love you more.

You see love an emotion as something that can be bought and we come here to complain when the formula doesn't work. It can get you punny, loads of sex but not love. Because onnce the bigger mugu
show up she ports.

How can you keep dangling free money in front of them and expect them to ignore it.

So don't blame them when they become full blooded gold diggers blame yourself.

We men are the problem we keep feeding the narrative of women been gold diggers and acting on
that narrative.

The irony is that we don't learn we keep repeating the same old Strategy over and over again.

The earlier you get the knowledge that love can't be bought the better for you. Focus on the little things.

Focus on making her fall in love with you than buying her love. But as usual we like short cut.

Don't present or shower her with Money, when wooing a woman you really love. Focus on getting to know her and her getting to know you.

Let the money showering come when you both get married. Or sure you both have something serious going. Be bold to decline her request for money, and see how she reacts if she reacts negatively you know what caliber of woman she is.

Go after women that have a life a career not those ones that see men as money spinning machines.

Don't go after leeches and parasite. Go after women
with substance and virtue.

An epistle is enough for the wise.